False Sympathy

False Sympathy

Why do people Show off


Most of us don’t like showy people because we assume that they are arrogant and because they sometimes remind us of our few achievements.
From the outside showy people appear to be happy, possessing many things that others really want and sometimes superior But what most people don’t know is that their inside is much different.
In short, the following is the truth about showy people:
  • They feel that they aren’t noticed or recognized: Showy people believe that they didn’t get the attention they deserve and so they show off to send one clear message
    "I am here, please notice me". So actually a showy person is begging you to notice him while you might be begging him to accept you!!
  • They care about people’s opinion: To some people the opinion of others doesn’t matter that much and doesn’t have a significant impact on their happiness. To showy people it’s the opposite the opinion of others is the most important thing and if they failed to let others like them they might feel really bad
  • Some of them believe that people are underestimating them: because of believing that people are underestimating them showy people do their best to show off their best traits to prove that they are worthy!!
Trend on Social Media to show off:

Nowadays people are showing off their feelings or grief or they are crying for those to whom they don’t know personally and the best part is that he don’t know about these people at all who they are or from where they are.

Just to get attention from the public they are uploading Photos, Emotional Status or some other stuffs with their crying emoji or feeling that is purely false.

These are the most stupid people in the society or I can say these are the one who is responsible if anything happens to anyone just because they have gave him/her false sympathy at the time which he/she needed true sympathy or support from the people.

They left him/her alone when he/she needed them the most in  his/her difficult time or worse phase of the life but at that time they were not available for him/her to support him/her or to motivate Do YOU KNOW WHY BECAUSE THESE STUPID PEOPLES WERE BUSY IN UPLOADING POST OR PHOTOS OR STATUS ON SOCIAL MEDIA FOR THOSE WHO DON’T KNOW THEM.

So make true relationship only in life nothing else. Be with those people who are with you, not with others. Don’t be a part of crowd, be a part of a true company.

So here I have written something just to describe my feelings for these kind of people. If you like it then please do share or comment:




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